We can't fix your heart. We can handle everything else.

Break Up With Me started from a simple, annoying truth: a breakup doesn't just hurt — it hands you a to-do list. Overnight you're figuring out meals for one, a lease with two names on it, the chores your ex used to quietly handle, and a version of yourself you haven't checked in on in a while. All of that lands at the exact moment you have the least energy to deal with it.

So we built the calm place that sorts it out. One spot that points you toward genuinely useful help — food that shows up at the door, a deep clean, a therapist, a lawyer if it's a divorce, a getaway when you just need to leave town — organized by where you actually are in the mess, from "I can't function" to "okay, maybe I'm ready for someone new."

What we believe

Honesty over everything. We make money through affiliate links, and we tell you that plainly — no burying it in the footer. We only point you toward things we'd actually send a friend, and your wellbeing always comes before any commission. If something's a bad fit for you, the right move is to skip it. Here's exactly how we make money.

Meet people where they are. Grief isn't linear and neither is this site. Some days you need soup and a good cry; some days you're ready to repaint the bedroom. There's no "right" way to get through it, and nothing here assumes you should be further along than you are.

Care before commerce. A breakup audience is a vulnerable one. That means we take safety seriously, we never pretend to be something we're not, and we say the important part out loud: this is a support and resources site, not a medical, legal, or crisis service.

How we pick what to recommend

Every service we list is something we'd suggest to someone we care about: reputable, widely used, and actually helpful at a hard moment. We favor partners with fair terms and real track records, and we group everything by need so you're never wading through options that don't apply to you. When a link is an affiliate link — most are — it's labeled.

Who's behind it

Break Up With Me is a small, independent project — not a faceless brand. It started from a simple frustration: right after a breakup, when you have the least energy to go looking, the practical help you need is scattered across a dozen different places. So we pulled it into one calm spot, organized by what you actually need first. We only point you toward things we'd recommend to someone we care about.

Say hello

Questions, feedback, a partner you think we should add, or just want to tell us your story? Reach out at [email protected]. We read everything.